Relationship Manager

Rome
Antics

For every person who matters to you

One app for every important relationship in your life — your partner, parents, in-laws, grandparents, children, siblings, and friends. Smart reminders. Personalised suggestions. AI-powered advice that knows your people.

Available in English · Nederlands · Français

💝
Emma — Partner
Birthday · 3 days away
URGENT
👩
Maria — Her Mother
Moederdag · 12 days away
SOON
👨‍👩‍👦
Lucas — Son
Birthday · 6 weeks away
PLANNED
👴
Opa Jan — Grandfather
Opa & Oma Dag · 8 weeks
PLANNED
👫
Thomas — Brother
Birthday · 3 months away
ON WATCH
What it is

All your important relationships, one place

Most people keep dates in their head, scattered across calendars, or not at all. When the moment comes — a birthday, an anniversary, a parent's special day — there is no plan, no idea what to do, and no time left.

Rome Antics keeps track of every person who matters — their dates, their preferences, what they love and what they do not. When something is approaching, the app tells you exactly how much time you have and what to do.

The result: you show up for the people in your life, consistently, without stress, and with gestures that actually mean something to them specifically.

Who you manage

Built for every relationship in your life

Add anyone who matters. Every person gets their own profile, their own dates, and their own preference history that makes every reminder and suggestion more accurate over time.

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Partner
Birthdays, anniversaries, preferences, love language
👩‍👧
In-Laws
Mother, father, and extended family on her side
👨‍👩‍👧
Parents
Your mother and father, their preferences, their days
👶
Children
Every child tracked individually with age-specific suggestions
👴👵
Grandparents
Both sides, including grandparents' day and personal dates
👫
Siblings
Brothers and sisters on both sides of the family
🕯️
Departed
Remember those you have lost on their dates, with care
👥
Close Friends
The people outside family who still matter deeply to you
Features

Everything you need to show up

From the reminder to the gesture to the purchase — Rome Antics handles the full chain, not just the notification.

🔔
Smart Reminders
Reminders land with enough lead time to actually do something — not the morning of. Set your own timing per person.
💡
Personalised Suggestions
80 curated gesture ideas across five categories — from free acts of care to planned experiences — matched to each person's known preferences.
🔮
AI Advice
Ask the AI for specific advice — it knows your people, their preferences, and what is coming up. Personalised every time.
📋
Preference Profiles
Build a detailed profile for each person over time — favourite flowers, gift style, celebration preference, love language. The app uses it all.
🗓️
Cultural Calendar
Valentine's Day, Moederdag, Vaderdag, Opa & Oma Dag, Sinterklaas, Grandparents' Day and more — auto-detected for NL, BE, and FR.
🛒
Curated Gift Links
Contextual recommendations for flowers, experiences, gifts, and restaurants — surfaced at the right moment with preferences already factored in.
🌍
Three Languages
Full support for English, Dutch, and French — including locale-specific occasion calendars and culturally appropriate suggestions.
🔒
Private by Design
All your relationship data stays yours. No data sold. No ads. No third party access to your personal information.
♾️
Gets Smarter Over Time
The more you use it, the better it knows each person. Suggestions become more specific. AI advice becomes more relevant. Every action teaches the app.
How it works

Set up once. Works for years.

Rome Antics is not a calendar you have to maintain. Add your people once, build their profiles over time, and the app does the rest.

I
Add Your People
Add each person in your life — their name, their birthday, and which occasions matter for them. Takes about 5 minutes for a full family.
II
Build Their Profile
Answer a few questions about each person over time — what they love, how they like to celebrate, their preferences. The app uses this to personalise everything.
III
Show Up
Get the right reminder at the right time. Know exactly what to do. Ask the AI if you need ideas. Never miss a moment that matters again.
Occasions we track

Every important date — personal and cultural

Automatic for NL · BE · FR — additional occasions added as we expand

💝 Valentine's Day 💐 Moederdag NL 💐 Fête des Mères FR 🎖️ Vaderdag NL/BE 🧓 Opa & Oma Dag 🎅 Sinterklaas 🎄 Christmas 🐣 Easter 👑 Women's Day 🤝 Siblings Day 🟠 Koningsdag 🎈 Children's Day
Availability

iOS now. Android coming.

Rome Antics launches on iOS. Android is in development — register your interest and we will notify you the moment it is available.

🍎
iPhone
iOS 16 and above
Download Free
EN · NL · FR
🤖
Android
Coming later in 2026
Notify Me
EN · NL · FR
Contact

Get in touch

Support
Questions about the app, account issues, or feedback
Partners & Press
Media enquiries, platform partnerships, affiliate programmes
Business
Commercial partnerships, brand collaboration, investor relations
Legal

Privacy Policy

Last updated: June 2026

Who we are

Rome Antics is a relationship management application developed and operated by Rome Antics. The app is accessible at rome-antics.org and available on the Apple App Store. For privacy matters, contact us at legal@rome-antics.org.

What data we collect

Rome Antics collects only the data necessary to provide the service:

  • Account data: email address and password used to create your account
  • Relationship data: names, dates of birth, anniversaries, and preference information you enter for people in your life
  • App usage data: which features you use, which suggestions you act on or dismiss — used to improve personalisation
  • Device data: device type, operating system, timezone — used for push notifications and locale-specific content
  • Push notification token: used solely to deliver reminders to your device

What we do not collect

  • We do not collect payment card details — all billing is handled by Apple (App Store) or Google (Play Store)
  • We do not read your contacts, calendar, messages, or any other app on your device
  • We do not collect location data
  • We do not serve advertisements

How we use your data

Your data is used exclusively to provide the Rome Antics service:

  • To deliver reminders on the dates and occasions you configure
  • To generate personalised suggestions and AI advice based on the profiles you build
  • To surface contextually relevant gift and experience recommendations
  • To improve the accuracy of suggestions over time based on your feedback

AI and data processing

Rome Antics uses the Anthropic Claude API to generate personalised advice. When you request AI advice, a brief of the relevant relationship context (upcoming dates, known preferences) is sent server-side to the API. This data is used solely to generate your response and is not stored by Anthropic beyond the processing session. We never send personally identifiable information such as full names to external AI services.

Data sharing

We do not sell your data. We do not share your personal relationship data with any third party. The only data shared externally:

  • Anthropic API: anonymised relationship context for AI advice generation (see above)
  • Supabase: our database infrastructure provider, hosted within the EU, bound by EU data protection standards
  • Affiliate networks (Awin, TradeTracker): anonymous click identifiers only — we share no personal data with affiliate merchants

Data storage and security

All data is stored on Supabase infrastructure located within the European Union. Data is encrypted at rest and in transit. Access is restricted by row-level security — your data is only accessible to your own account. We apply standard security practices including rate limiting, injection prevention, and regular credential rotation.

Your rights under GDPR

If you are based in the EU or EEA, you have the following rights:

  • Right to access: request a copy of all data we hold about you
  • Right to erasure: request deletion of your account and all associated data
  • Right to portability: receive your data in a structured, machine-readable format
  • Right to rectification: correct any inaccurate data we hold
  • Right to object: object to any processing you did not explicitly consent to

To exercise any of these rights, contact legal@rome-antics.org. We will respond within 30 days.

Data retention

Your data is retained for as long as your account is active. When you delete your account, all personal data is permanently deleted within 30 days. Anonymised, non-identifiable aggregate usage statistics may be retained for product improvement purposes.

Children

Rome Antics is not intended for users under the age of 16. We do not knowingly collect data from children. If you believe a child has created an account, contact us at legal@rome-antics.org and we will delete the account promptly.

Changes to this policy

We may update this policy as the product evolves. Significant changes will be communicated via in-app notification. Continued use of the app after a policy update constitutes acceptance of the revised terms.

Contact

For any privacy question or data request: legal@rome-antics.org